A sudden interest in how he looks
When you’ve been with someone for a long time, you tend to let go and relax more into the relationship. You enter a comfort zone where you don’t feel as conscious about your body or going make-up free in front of him. Same goes for your guy. He might start skipping his daily jog, let loose in the knowledge that you both love each other unconditionally. Suddenly, your guy becomes addicted to the gym, or he fusses about his hairline even though it’s not close to receding. You can tell he’s totally into getting into shape and toning himself up. You think, ‘wow, this is good’. Hold that thought.
A standard tell-tale sign your guy has his eyes elsewhere is when he suddenly starts being really interested in keeping himself in shape, taking showers at irregular hours and as petty as this may sound, he even starts to use his cologne a lot more. All in all, right in the middle of your comfortable relationship, he’s got this sudden urge to look as hot as possible. Pay close attention girly. This guy could be slipping right out of hands into another girl’s right under your nose.
Passwords, passwords everywhere
You’re out of phone credit and grab his cell phone to make a call. You’re met with the request for a code on his screen. It’s like being punched in the stomach. You can’t think of a reason why he feels the need to protect his phone with a password. When confronted, your guys shrugs it off and says it’s to keep his personal stuff safe from his friends or his nieces and nephews. You almost believe him. Then you ask for the code, and he offers to put it in himself, opting not to let you know it. That’s when you can safely assume it’s not his friends or kids he’s worried about. It’s YOU. Let’s face it, we all keep passwords and codes on our emails and social media because we want to protect our privacy from strangers, but do we ever keep things hidden from the person closest to us? No. As fearful as you may feel about finding out what he’s hiding on his cell phone, better to look now. If you choose to ignore it, it may just come back and hit you in the face.
It’s an ugly truth to face up to, and any girl would be gutted to think that her guy is two-timing her, but the sad reality is that it happens a lot, and is more common than we like to think. Look at it this way, be glad he gave you all these hints and you caught him early on, because nothing is worse than having the feeling you’re being played with, but choosing to sit back and turn into a nervous wreck every time your guy leaves the house. You deserve better.
