Have a girl’s night out-every week!
Nothing comforts a broken heart like your girlfriends. They’re the ones you once shared all your joys and sorrows with, and the ones who lifted you up when you were bummed about a failed test or a bruised knee. What makes you think they won’t be there now that you’re nursing a heart that’s been hurt beyond repair. Don’t just sit around waiting for them to come to you, take initiative and make plans ASAP. Go out to the most happening clubs where most singles hang out, or just have drinks together and laugh over all the crazy times you’ve spent together. Make this a weekly ritual, and stick to it.Trust me, you’ll feel like you’re right where you belong and your guy will be the furthest thing from your mind.
Find out, what can make you feel happy!
Step up your routine
When we’re in a relationship, we dedicate large portions of our day to just being with them. Now that your guy has distanced himself completely, you find huge empty chunks in your day that you fill by feeling sorry for yourself. That’s a complete no-no. First thing first, fill in those hours by taking on new activities. It could be that yoga class you were dying to try out but never had time for. It could be something as simple as going for a long drive or a walk by yourself. Join a book club or a cycling group, anything that lets you be with new people and at the same time, takes your sad daily routine to something exciting that you look forward to. In no time, the guy who you once obsessed over will be a long distant memory.
Also find some useful tips to deal with a breakup.
Cut-off all contact
After all is said and done, and he’s gone on with his life while you’re left hanging, the time comes when you must break all contact, at least for 3 months. That’s the healing period you owe yourself in the very least. While you are still wrapping your head around the idea of no longer having him in your life, you need to put as much distance as possible between him and yourself. If you go to school together, now is the time to tweak your time table and have your girls help you avoid him. As tempting as it is to just send a tiny text saying hello, just don’t do it. It’ll only lead to rejection later, all over again. Surround yourself with solid friends who will keep you from calling or texting him, and oh! No snooping on his Facebook account! Tell yourself its over and move on.
Keep sensing these things so that you can get an idea of an being into an unhealthy relationship.
soli
Apr 16, 2015 at 3:35 am
What if it isn’t working and you just can’t let go.? Even after you say goodbye..
Phindile
Jul 7, 2015 at 9:11 pm
I strugle to get over my ex whenever i try moving on he comes around,he hurts me a lot and never get to spend time with me,i never lose hope on us,i love him a lot and i struggle to move on
mr. voldemore.
Aug 27, 2015 at 6:00 pm
its really nice to read this blog.
P. S.- helpful.
Amina yasmin
Sep 19, 2015 at 8:50 am
Felt so overwhelming reading this post. Really good one. Motivated me to finally move on and to cope up with the aftermath sorrow. :’)
brooklyn
Sep 24, 2015 at 6:00 pm
really helpful… is a sad thing to go through… although I still wish it had neva happened ?
Adeniyi Adesola
Oct 13, 2015 at 5:19 pm
Really helpful
Jinky klaire
Oct 29, 2015 at 6:36 pm
so helpful, I learn a lot
bobby
Nov 10, 2015 at 1:12 pm
Am really much excited havin bumped into dis article..i use to tink dat my world has fallen,not anymore..from now on I wil do my possible best to try nd get her out of my mind
Lhiz
Dec 5, 2015 at 6:22 am
Would really wanna try it all…hopefully I’ll pass
rovelyn sayco manalo
Dec 8, 2015 at 2:30 pm
.. Its so hard to forget him. ?
September
Dec 17, 2015 at 3:34 pm
It helps clear my thoughts as of now… Thank you for this…
Tammy
Jan 14, 2016 at 3:26 am
Some great advice. I am going to do this ASAP. Tired of my aching heart…I need to heal. Thanks.
Lola Bunny
Jan 22, 2016 at 1:23 pm
Yes, very sad and hard to go through. Depressing really!
Shadya
Feb 3, 2016 at 7:19 pm
Thank u i appreciate reading this.. it hurts but u a right i deserve better than this much better.
Lerato
Mar 9, 2016 at 8:45 pm
im going thru a sort of a break up righy now with the father of my 20 month old daughter, it isn’t all that easy if you have kid together. I wish he would stop with the games and go back to the guy I met 4 yrs ago.
I love him sooo much, we haven’t been intimate for the past 5 months due to his living situation of which i’ve been so understanding of, never cheated not even once during that time and im only 22 ( he is 40)
I don’t know wher to start with moving on because i’ve been with him for so long I don’t even knw how to flirt with other guys. I’m even thinking of committing suicide but can’t bring myself to do it because of my daughter. I sent him my last msg tonight, gave him my heart for the last time from now on wont be bothering him with calls and all that. I know its gonna be hard but im gonna try moving on.. im gonna keep praying for him tho that he finds someone who will love him more then I could ever love him, which I doubt he ever will find..
love
Apr 3, 2016 at 2:52 am
You cannot forget someone like that in true love….He left me but I didn’t and ill never ,I know he’ll come back because at present he is not mature enough to understand what is true love. And it’s never possible to forget true love. Boyfriend- girlfriend is different but what when he is your life, who can forget life? So these type of articles are for those people who change their LOVE everyday .
Harriet
Apr 10, 2016 at 7:33 pm
this didn’t help me, what if i cant get a new look cause my look is too swag and what if i don’t want to get rid of access baggage cause i really like my suitcase.
all jokes aside the first one is the only good advice and it isn’t even that good
amoranecnava
May 19, 2016 at 1:27 am
Everyday I pray ill get through the process..
Sidoni Lenin
May 22, 2016 at 5:40 am
Well i let him go and he keeps coming BACK!!!!!! I love him but i know hes not the right guy for me but he keeps insisting and i just dont know what to do anymore. Ive broken up with him so many times said goodbye a million times cursed him out insulted him blackmailed him…. I just dont know what else to do to get rid of him. Someone please help me!!!
Jean Leier
Jun 14, 2016 at 1:29 am
It’s so hard to let go, I’ve tried for over a year. I’m sure if he calls again, I’ll be right there for him!
Dana jackson
Jun 14, 2016 at 6:38 pm
These are very good suggestions. I am falling out of love with my former boyfriend as I look back at the crappy way he treated me. I even made a list of instances to read and reread to convince myself what an a-hole he was. Believe me, it helps.
I think the worst was when he dumped me twice, both times when I was just released from the hospital. He didn’t visit or call while I was there, either. We usually got back together in a few days but not this time. I think he did me a giant favor by leaving. It was something I wasn’t strong enough to do.
DanaSue
Random
Jun 21, 2016 at 12:48 pm
It is so hard going through this, I go to the same school and we are in the same class and he is sitting one table away from me, I haven’t told him that I like him but he doesn’t show any signs and he flirts with a friend of me. I know he doesn’t like me, like who does. I am not 10/10 or 6-7-8-9 out of 10, I am ugly and super skinny and my friend is curvy and pretty. He even said on the prom that he liked a girl and after that he said ” You will see who it is ” but he never did anything, and sometimes he gives me compliments and is teasing me but I know that he didn’t mean that I was the girl on the prom. It is just so heartbreaking because he is so nice and we have so much in common and he has always been there for me and I don’t want to let him go :((
I am 17 years old
Moitlamo Masedi
Sep 8, 2016 at 12:18 pm
thanks for this wonderful advises, or lord am relived