All of us have many bad habits and we don’t even realize them. But these subconscious habits could hurt your beautiful relationship. These could even cause your precious one to go far from you. When you fall in love, you normally don’t see any bad habit of the one you love, at least until you get past the stage of infatuation. This logic is true for your partner also. They don’t see your bad habits because your love is the only thing which they need. After the stage of crush, you start realizing those nagging habits that has been in your relationship since the very first day but you were not able to get them as you were enjoying the sweetness of your new love.
No one wants to admit his/her faults. Com’on, no one is perfect. We all know from the inside that it is much easier to deny that we have faults than to accept them. You only realize and accept your bad habits when the one you love has long gone and its too late for your relationship. But if you truly love some one, you can change yourself. Can’t you?
Bad Habits That Deeply Hurt Your Relationship
Find out which of the following bad habits you own in your relationship or you may suspect some signs he’s cheating. These things can hurt your relationship in long run. If you do have some of them, it’s time to realize them. If your partner have some of them, its time to have a nice conversation. Its time to change for the one you love. most of these oftenly occur if you are having an open-relationship.
1. You Are Not Appreciating
When you see that your partner is very sweet and caring. You like it. You love it. But do you remember the last time you appreciated your partner for everything they are doing for you? Have you ever thanked them for the tiniest thing they do? For you, it may seem silly to appreciate your partner for every small task they do for you. But this can be the start of changing your view from appreciation to expectation. It is not good to take their sweet gestures for granted.
2. For Them, You Do Not Do Much Effort For Their Happiness
Maybe you are doing everything for your partner to make them happy. But when your partner is not realizing these efforts when you expect them to do. And yet, you keep doing everything for your partner, you will end up like a relationship martyr. In such a case, You must talk to them and make them realize that you are doing these things especially for them. They must not take them for granted.
3. You Keep Testing Their Patience And Your Relation
It is good to test your relationship for its trueness and love. It is very sweet and charming when your partner passes the test. But If your relationship has passed several stages, then you must leave this habit . You must stop testing them as it’ll annoy them eventually and yours can turn out to be one of those unhealthy relationships which are really hard to get back to happy stage again.